Whether you are male or female, whether you are interested in a happy marriage (as a male or female) or whether (as a male) you want to be a successful playboy, or (as a woman) be able to fascinate your man forever, the key is to be a good lover.

There are many aspects in being a good lover.

Some are plainly physical: beauty for example. Beauty, in men and women, can contribute greatly to our aim of being a good lover, or even better: a perfect lover.

You may think it is strange that we consider beauty, which is a static quality, to be an element in being a good lover, which is a quality of behavior. However, because beauty can greatly enhance the pleasure we can give to our partner in a love relationship, it does, in fact, contribute to our quality as a lover.

Many of the parameters of beauty are genetic, but others can be influenced by our conduct. If, for example, we keep away from the sun, our skin will be lighter in color, and look younger for many years. No cosmetic can reverse the damage which too much sun exposure can do to our skin.

Not to be fat is another aspect of physical attractiveness that does not depend so much on genetic factors, but much more on our conduct.

When we think of attractiveness, the first that comes to our minds are beautiful faces. However, there is another physical attractiveness that is seldom discussed but nevertheless of great importance when our husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend assesses our quality as a lover. This is what we shall call genital attractiveness.

There is no question that men with comparatively large genitals stand a better chance of giving their wives or girlfriend ultimate sexual satisfaction, and, the other way around, comparatively small genitals in women not only provide mental fascination to husbands and boyfriends but also clearly result in much greater sexual satisfaction.

For men, being “well equipped” can be a substantial factor that determines their success as a lover. A man whose genital physique assures that the women he sleeps with achieve orgasm easily will not be abandoned by a girlfriend or wife. Even more so, because women tend to discuss the physical attractiveness of their boyfriends, men who are “well equipped” will find themselves approached by young women who just would like a try.

On the other hand, women with almost childlike genitals will always exert an extreme fascination over a man who has experienced them. And for a woman, to maintain an optimal shape or her genitals may well be a decisive factor in her struggle to keep her husband bound to her forever.

There are of course many other aspects that determine a man’s or a woman’s quality as a lover, and most of them are psychological, not physical. These psychological aspects are the primary topic of this site.

Because what men want and what women want in life is not exactly the same, this side is divided in two sections. One part provides advice to men, and it teaches how to be attractive to many women.

The other part is for women, and it teaches how a woman can be victorious over the polygamous tendencies of her boyfriend or husband, and assure that he will love her forever, and be sexually faithful because he can find complete satisfaction just with her.

That men and women do not start out with the same sexual preferences is a fact of biology. Our task is not to correct biology. Our task is that those who hire our consultancy services will achieve what is important to them, not what we decide should be just or moral.